Showing posts with label Gay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gay. Show all posts

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Family, Friends, Work and Busy Busy Busy!!

Lets see, since I last posted a lot has happened. I got a job at target the end of July. I went in for a interview, Two people interviewed me, Asked me what experience I had, They explained what I would be doing and what would be expected of me. They were both really nice. I was offered the job right after the interview, which was awesome! It was a seasonal job offer. They had me go do a drug test that very same day, All I had to do for the drug test was go in a cup. Obviously I passed, since I don't do drugs. It was about two weeks later when they called me and told me when orientation was, That was a stressful two weeks. Because in that time I was constantly worrying about if I didn't pass something, If they were still going to give me the job ect. ect. Ya know everyone told me I couldn't get I job if all I did was apply online. But I proved them wrong! I got the job at target and all I did was apply online! I started out on the overnight shift, It was from 12am to 5am varying days of the week. I was on the Flow team, They are the team that unloads the boxes from the truck, Bowls them to the proper area of the store, And stocks the merchandise from said boxes. I did that job until Back to school season ended. They kept me after seasonal because they thought I was a really good worker! I was put on the presentation team after seasonal ended, The presentation team Sets the aisles, By setting the shelves and pegs, Puts up the signing and pulls merchandise from the backroom. I work Monday to Friday most weeks. I love my team! We even go out to lunch every now and then.

Before I even got a call from target that I had a interview, My uncle Arlen that lives in Florida came to visit since he was in Texas for work and had a day off. When he got here we all just sat and talked for a little bit, Then he took us out for lunch at chili's. The food was awesome! He found out I was gay and started asking me weird questions like, Have you ever kissed a boy?, Haven't you ever wanted to hold hands with a boy? Have you ever gone out with a boy? And, Your not interested at all in boys? And he just looked at me like he didn't believe me and that I was really weird, And he insinuated that I was to young and naive to actually know that I liked girls. Those questions were awkward because he asked all of them in front of my dad, Who I hadn't even told that I'd kissed a boy before. He told me what everyone else told me about getting a job, That you have to go in and talk to them. That you're not going to get a job by just applying online. Other then that, The visit was pretty good for me. He really hurt daddy though with some Of the things he told him when they went out to the car to talk a little before he left. I didn't hear those words directly, so I'm not going to write them here, especially since Daddy wrote all about it in his own blog.

Later after the job interview and offer, But before the call for orientation, My aunt Trini came up to visit us with her mom and dad. She took us all out to lunch at Luby's cafeteria. The food was awesome! Everyone just talked and reminisced about to past and got caught up on the now. Trini's mom was hilarious! I loved her! After lunch, Trini and her mom and dad took me shopping for work clothes. We stopped at one store very near our apartments, But the styles were more catered to black people and they didn't have the Red shirt and khaki pants that I needed. So we then went down by target to a store called Ross Dress for Less. We found 1 shirt and 2 pairs of pants there. Plus a Backpack and lunch bag and a pair of shoes. We also got Eldin and daddy some new clothes while we were there. The backpack, because I was planning to ride my bike to work everyday and needed something to carry everything while riding the bike, And the lunch bag is pretty self explanatory. Then we want over to target and found a few more red shirts. Then we stopped at the dollar store, because her mom wanted to buy a few things there. I got a water bottle and some gum. Then we came home and they had to leave. I got Trini's cell number and they left :). The visit was very fun, daddy and Eldin even got fedoras.

Since then, I've been working for a couple of months and so far I love it! I've been working on the Presentation team for a few weeks now. As I put above, I love my team! I'm always coming home with my knees and legs all bruised from kneeling on the floor and against the shelving while putting it up. My best friend came up to live with us on the 14th of September, because the person she was living with kicked her out again, And she needed a fresh start. So I sent her money for a bus ticket and a suitcase set. Technically she got here on the 15th, since she got here at 2:30am, But it was still the 14th to me, since I hadn't gone to bed yet. On the 15th we all went to the beach in Corpus Christi. We went to Bob hall pier. That was a blast! We went and played in the water, the waves were very fun! Me, Aleshia and Eldin all walked way out where there were some decent sized waves and jumped into/onto them. Salt water really stings the eyes and nose when it gets in them. I got washed under a few times, Two of which I inhaled a lot of salt water, Boy that hurt! The third one I was prepared for! lol. We also made sand sculptures, Aleshia sculpted what looked like a woman buried in sand, Eldin dug holes and buried his legs, And daddy buried his feet. That was fun to watch! Afterwards we went down to the end of the pier and looked out on the water. There were a lot of people fishing! We saw a baby shark and a fish attached to a hook and rope that was attached to the pier. That was a little disconcerting, Since if there was a baby shark there, Then Mama shark couldn't be very far. After the beach, We went to KFC for lunch, since everyone was starving! And then we started the drive home. We got home about 10:30pm I think.

It's been great having my best friend living here! On the 16th we both dyed our hair bright red! On the 18th we went to Lakeline mall and Picked up a bunch of job applications for Aleshia, We also tried on a couple of dresses (I post the picture at the bottom.) That was fun. That Night Aleshias phone went for a swim, luckily 2 days of it sitting in rice fixed it.

On the 19th we went rollerskating with A couple of unschoolers we met on a email group. That was fun, Me and aleshia skated around for a while, I only fell once! But man that fall hurt! Eldin skated around with his new friend Anthony for a while. Then after that we went to Georgetown lake and swam for a bit. We jumped of of a small ledge into the water which was 40ft deep and a very long ways from the shore. It was harder to swim that far then we thought it would be. We even resorted to clinging to the cliff wall to rest, and said wall was covered in ants. That's how tired we were. The exhaustion was starting to set off panic, because we were so far from shore, yet we had swam so far. Me and Aleshia finally found a rock to sit on and rest. It wasn't far to the shore from there. Then we saw that Eldin was still way back and clinging to to wall. He wouldn't let go because he couldn't swim any farther. After all, he never exercises so that was far more than he was used to. Anyways we finally got Anthony the hale the boat and they went and picked Eldin up. And Eldin even saw the bright side of that experience, He got to ride in a boat! Overall It would have been worth it to jump off of the high wall just so that we wouldn't of had to swim so far.

On the 20th Aleshia went to the hospital, because of dropping blood clots, severe stomach pain and vomiting. They checked her out and said they didn't think it was anything to serious. They prescribed her some pain meds and some antibiotics. And told her to make a appointment with a gynecologist to find out what was wrong for sure.

The on the 21st She had a interview at the Olive Garden. The interview took almost an hour and when she came out, She was walking really fast and smiling. She got the job! The very first job she's interviewed for here, Her very first job, And she got it on the first try!!! We are soooooo proud of her! And she was practically glowing with happiness! Her orientation is on Monday at noon. She'll probably be working as a hostess. We then went to Walmart and I got a new phone, It's a cricket touch screen and I love it!! We then went to savers to get her work clothes. And I picked up some clothes too. We walked out of there after spending $78! Then we went and picked up some ground beef and bacon. We were very nearly out of both.

Yesterday I went out to lunch with Some people from work, We ate at Pluckers. There food was good. I got a grilled cheese and macaroni. Afterwords me and a different Anthony, (This one works with me) went to see a movie. We saw  "The house at the end of the street." It was pretty good, It was very weird. I think He saw it as a date?. But to me it was just going out with a friend to see a movie. So after I was home for a few minutes, I texted him and told him that I was sorry but I'm gay and not interested in guys in that way. He texted me back and said that It was ok, He understood. And that he hoped I had a nice weekend. He's a really nice guy, But Like I said, just not into them. Then later that day, Me, Aleshia, Eldin and Daddy went to a frozen yogurt place to meet with Barbra and Anthony from the unschooling thing. The yogurt was very good! Afterwords we went hiking. That was fun, The riverbed had no water except a couple of small puddles. Then on the walk back, We heard a rattlesnake! That was very startling, Especially considering it was getting kinda dark! After all that, We came home and made meatloaf. It was very good! Then me and Aleshia went down to the hot-tub for a bit. Then when we came back we put up laundry and finished the dream boards that we had been working on. Then at about 2am I went to bed, And I can only assume aleshia came to bed not long after me. 

And that's everything that's been going on since I last wrote! I'll try to update more often, But I can't promise anything. :-).


Thursday, June 21, 2012

Online dating, Tennis and Busy, busy city life

Hello :). The last couple of weeks have been very busy. On or around the 10th, I created a user account on Okcupid.com, And put that I was bisexual. I've made friends with a few of the guys that messaged me on there, And blocked a few because they were douchbags that only wanted sex.

On the 12th I went on a bowling date with a unschooler that I met on there. He's a pretty good guy i guess :). The bowling was pretty fun, I was beaten by about 20-30 points :P. The bowling ally  we went to was much fancier then the onw i was used to in buffalo. It had cool graphics that played across the screne when you scored and it had scenceres on the line so that if your foot went over the line you got an automatic fail on that turn. It was a pretty cool place :). Afterwords I went to try some pot at his apartment(i know, bad idea to go to a guys apartment when you've just met them), And it was in his bedroom no-less! Anyway, the pot did nothing to me, seeing as it was my first time smoking it and that was a possibility. I did inhale some ash that burned my throat though. That really hurt! After that he brought me home and it was fairly uneventful the rest of the day :).

On the 14th we went and spent a large part of the day at Lakeline mall. We did some clothes shopping, After much browsing, I got a Beautiful dress, Some strappy high-heels from payless and a rainbow pride wrist warmer from spencers. After the mall, We went to Savers. Daddy got a nice pair of pants and a nice shirt, And I got a pair of jeans and a black t-shirt. We then came home and I spent some time trying to take a good picture of my dress and heels by myself, Then I gave up on that and asked daddy to take the picture. The pic turned out really well :).

I think it was the 17th when me and daddy went and bought a couple of tennis rackets and some tennis balls. We then went to Patterson park and played some tennis. That was really fun! Neither one of us played very well, But we still had a blast!

On the 18th Daddy had a doctors appt to have a spot on his ear looked at. Afterwards I think we came home, ate with eldin and then went to Patterson park to play some tennis with all three of us! We probably played for over an hour. Then we came back and went to Jack-in-the-box for supper. Afterwards we went to the Unschoolers support meeting and talked with some friends there for a few hours.

The next day on the 19th I had a date with another guy I'd met online at okcupid. We had our date at Barton creek mall. We walked around and he bought me a t-shirt from Hottopic. Then we walked around some more and looked at a couple of aquariums that the mall had. We Ended the date at the food court after we had lunch. Overall it was a pretty good date :). Afterwards we(me, daddy and eldin) came home and relaxed for a little bit before heading out to Givens park to play some tennis. It's very nice park. We kept score this time. First was eldin vs daddy, daddy was beaten 3-0. Then I played Eldin, To which I also lost 3-0. Then after a break, I played daddy. I lost completely 3-0 to him too. During the last match between eldin and daddy it started to rain, which was a nice break from the heat. Daddy actually won one of the games this time! It made their final match 2-1 with eldin winning. After that we went home. And it was that very same day that I came out as gay publicly on facebook. The guy I had a date with that day, understood and still wanted to be friends, for which I was relieved :).

On the 20th, We went to pool day at reed park. It was pretty fun. I got to see my friend cela there this time. I was very happy to see her :). I also made chili for supper, But seeing as it wasn't ready when we got back, We picked up eldin and went to Jack-in-the-box for supper.

Today, the 21st, We had chili for breakfast instead of our usual Burger and bacon. Daddy had a doctors appt with Dr.Dano to have a couple spots on his head freezed. Then we went to a pool party one of the Unschoolers was holding and spent a couple of hours there talking with some friends we hadn't seen before/hadn't seen in a while. That was pretty fun :). The rest of the day has been spent relaxing at home with our computers :).

Well, That's been my life the last couple of weeks :). And I'm very tired from it all! It's been fun though, for sure. TTYL =D.